HOW I GOT 700 DATES IN ONE YEAR
(AND 2500 WOMEN'S PHONE NUMBERS)
By: Mr. L. Rx
http://www.DatingToRelating.com
How I got 700 dates in one year
(and 2500 women's phone numbers)
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Copyright © 2007 Dating To Relating, Inc.
By Mr. L. Rx
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INDEX
Preface ..........................4
The Backdrop........................6
Enter the Dating Gurus......................8
Here is How I Did It and Continue to Do It............9
My DYNAMIC PRINCIPLES.................9
How the Two Techniques Compare...............21
In Summary..........................23
About The Author.......................27
Appendix A: Mr. L. Rx's Personal On Line Dating Directory...28
Appendix B: FREE STUFF!..................34
Preface
Now with a title Like "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year (and 2500
Women's Phone numbers)" it is easy for the point of this report
to get lost.
The point of this report is not Mr. L. RX bragging about his
exploits, but quite the contrary.
The point of the report is to give men something relatively quick
and easy that can help them meet and understand and relate to
women better.
Yes, I went out on 700 dates in a year, but I did it because I was
trying to learn about women and understand them and myself
and male-female relationships better.
And the strangest thing happened to me in that year that I first
did this. Simply by meeting that many women intensively
I began to understand women better. And I began to recognize
what they needed and wanted. And I began to get comfortable
just being there with them.
You see, LEARNING is a natural thing. Given enough
experience, we all will eventually learn. The problem with MOST
guys is that they have never MET and DATED and RELATED to
enough women to benefit from the natural learning process.
So you see the point isn't to go out on 700 DATES in a year for
the hell of it, or to win bragging rights with the guys. The
point is to go out on as many dates in as short a period of time
as it takes you to kick in that NATURAL LEARNING process
(called EXPERIENCE) so that you end up with your own
NATURAL SELF TAUGHT understanding of women and how
DATING and RELATING to women works FOR YOU....It just
happened to take me 700 DATES!
That is my intention in writing this report. I hope you can use it
that way.
Good Luck
Mr. L. Rx
Ok, guys. Let me set the back drop.
I'm 40+ years old, I just got divorced, I'm a single dad raising two kids
by myself.
I hadn't been with another woman in about 15 years (I'm completely
faithful and monogamous when I am married) but it was time to get
back into the dating game.
There were new development in the 90's -Voice mail, 900#s and
personal ads for dating were proliferating.
With a sales background, although I was shy, I was attracted to
"personal" ads in Newspapers. Seemed like it was direct and to the
point and wouldn't require as much time as trying to meet women
other ways..
A year later I had been on over 700 first dates and collected 2500
phone numbers. I am a little picky so I only went out with 3 women
more than once (my choice). One I ended up dating in a
monogamous relationship for 7 years..
So now at the end of that 7 years, I'm almost 50 and I'm back at it
again. But this time I was determined not to settle for less than my
ideal mate. Even if it takes a lifetime to find her. So this time, I decide
to use all my resources for meeting women -- personal ads, internet
dating, dating services, friends, and hitting up on women on the
street, in stores, etc.
Six months later, I was getting laid every night of the week by a
different girl. I had 10 girlfriends from 22 to 35 years old and I was
having a lot of fun.too much fun. So after a few months of that, I
decided to slow down and only date about 4-6 girls and leave a few
nights a week open to continue meeting new women and searching
for my ideal mate.
Since that time, that has been my pattern. I am still searching for that
ideal mate. I don't have time to meet 700 girls in one year anymore
(That was 2 dates a day for over a year by the way - a part time job
in itself) . So I have settled into having 4-6 friends, that I date and
have sex with ( a couple once a week each, a couple every other
week or so ,and a couple once a month or so.) I like to date and have
sex about 3-4 times a week and I like to leave my other nights open
to meet new women.
So in this mode I have been accumulating about 200-300 phone
numbers a year and going on about 100 new dates a year for several
years now.
ENTER THE DATING GURUS
So right about this time all these dating gurus start coming out of the
wood work telling guys how to double their dating, how to get dates
on line etc. I buy these programs because I am always trying to
improve my own game. After buying and reading a half dozen of
these programs or so, I realized that my statistics are better than all
of theirs. And although I can learn from these guys (there is always
something to learn from anyone) I realized that there is a hell of a lot
more that people could learn from me.
I even wrote one of the top "internet dating" gurus after I bought his
program, and politely complained that after applying his techniques I
was getting fewer responses than I was before. He responded that he
would look at my profile and get back to me. Well after a couple of
follow ups, he never did. It was then that I took a close look at his
statistics that he so proudly announced to the world.
Yes he was going on 3 to 4 times the dates and collecting 3 to 4
times the telephone numbers that I was, but he had 50 times the
profiles and sent out 10 times the emails that I was. Bottom line was
pound for pound I was totally out-slugging him. No wonder my profile
worked better than his.
HERE's HOW I DID IT and continue to do it.
MY DYNAMIC PRINCIPLES
I am trained in sales, so the core of my system is sales advertising
technique.
GETTING SALES LEADS IN IS A NUMBERS GAME. The more
doors you can knock on per unit of time, the more leads you have,
the more hot leads you have, and the more closes you get.
Once you develop an ad that gets a response, the more newspapers
you can get it in, the more leads you get, the more hot leads you get,
and the more closes you get.
SALES involves three distinct actions, which require three different
technologies:
DRIVING LEADS IN
QUALIFYING THOSE LEADS
SELLING THOSE QUALIFIED LEADS
Now most people errantly think there is only one technology involved
in sales. These people are bad salesmen, because they try to apply
SALES TECHNOLOGY to UNQUALIFIED LEADS or the action of
DRIVING IN LEADS and leave a lot of angry potential customers in
their wake.
With the advent of PERSONAL ADS in the 90's and the legitimizing
of INTERNET DATING in the 2000's getting masses of first dates is
quite easy. BECAUSE YOU HAVE AUTOMATED TOOLS TO DO
MOST OF THE GRUNT WORK FOR YOU.
Getting and going on 700 dates in a year was certainly a part time
job. (It took about 4-6 hours a day of my time to do all the actions
necessary to fulfill this) but without the automated tools it would have
been impossible (unless I was a Rock Star) as it would have been a
FULL TIME job to do all the actions necessary to meet and date 700
women in a year meeting them on the street, through friends, etc.
NOW you can actually FORGET what all the INTERNET dating
GURUS tell you about the content of your profile and emails. Of
course some content is better than others and will get you a higher
response rate. But for the first step don't even worry about that. The
real secret is VOLUME of ADS.
Even the INTERNET DATING GURU whose program I bought
admitted that he had 100s of profiles up while doing his research. He
made it seem like the profiles were ONLY for the research, but in
actuality it is the NUMBER of PROFILES that you have up that
determines how many responses you get more than any other factor.
AND it is simple, you don't even have to be good at writing profiles,
just get a bunch of them up saying different things.
I first learned this when I was doing the personal ads in the 90's. I
wrote a very conscientious ad put it in the newspaper and got 1 or 2
responses in a week. When I spoke to these girls and asked them
how their ads did, they would always say "I got 50 calls this week, or I
got 100 calls this week, etc.
It didn't take me long to extrapolate from this that, as usual, in our
society, GUYS approach GIRLS and very few GIRLS approach guys.
BUT even so, there a FEW GIRLS that do.
So realizing this I placed ads in 5 or 6 newspapers that carried
personal ads. I got on the average 2 calls per ad per week. NO
change there, but now, I was getting 10-12 calls per week. So then I
started writing different ads. Stressing different things that I was l
looking for, or different qualities about me - you know things like
SOUL MATE WANTED, then BEST FRIEND WANTED, then SINGLE
DAD looking for SINGLE MOM. Etc. (Actually keep your ads short.
Usually the less you say in an ad the more calls you will get. Just
communicate the theme in the title or heading and throw in a few
other things - Here are some examples: SOUL MATE WANTED - I
am spiritual, intelligent, and like physical activity. Looking for
beautiful, sensual, partner. BEST FRIEND WANTED - Man, 6' 0",
165 lbs. Looking for beautiful woman -inside and out. )
Now then I only had about 5-6 papers available to me in my area, so I
wrote about 4 different ads for each paper. So now - well you figure
it - 6 newspapers x 4 ads each x 2 responses each = 48
RESPONSES per week WITH PHONE NUMBERS! (Actually it
usually averaged just over 50.)
Now, being a good salesman, I knew better than to work RAW
unqualified leads personally (Can waste a lot of time. Any good
salesman wants pre-qualified leads) And the PERSONAL ADS were
perfect because NO ONE could call me directly. They could only
leave a voice message with a phone number and a description of
themselves as I requested they do in my outgoing message.
So to qualify the raw leads I simply listened to the messages. I asked
people to leave a message telling a little something about themselves
and height, weight, nationality, etc.
The beauty about voice personals (As opposed to the internet) is you
can hear the person's voice and message. This tells you a lot about
their personality. (Internet emails can hide a person's personality.) So
bottom line is I used the voice messages to eliminate about half of the
leads, then I called the other half. After talking to the girls, I would
simply only go on dates with those that I could easily and effortlessly
hold a conversation -- which worked out to be about 14-15 per week
out of the remaining 24.
THE BEAUTY ABOUT THIS SYSTEM is you don't have to know any
sophisticated technique. VOLUME of leads is what drives this
system. YOU don't even have to be skilled at how to talk to women
and what to say to women. I guarantee you if you just talk to 25
women a week on the phone, you figure out what to say in a very
short period of time, even if you are SHY and UNCOMFORTABLE at
first.
(I know this to be true because in my 20's when I first starting
developing VOLUME techniques, it took me about two months of
meeting women before I got laid. I wasn't particularly smart at that
time. I just kept doing it and slowly but surely the experience alone
allowed me to figure things out.)
NOW same goes for meeting with 10-15 women a week. Even if you
don't know what to do or say, the sheer volume of experience will
enable you to learn naturally what to say and how to act, and to get
comfortable sooner or later.
The personal ads I placed in Newspapers were free ads. Didn't cost
me a dime. I had to use different phone numbers and names to place
three or four ads in a newspaper, but most people have friends or
buddies who will let them do that when you explain what you are
doing. (If you want to pay for ads, then newspapers don't care and
some free paper still don't care. I have 8 ads running at this moment
in just one free newspaper.)
Note: Make sure you use Newspapers with some volume to them. If 2
women in the whole area are the only ones that read the ads, you are
not going to get more than 2 responses no matter how many ads you
place.
NOW INTERNET DATING is actually the same deal and same
technique. A lot of internet services want to charge you for their
dating service, but if you do a search there are tons of free ones.
Guys will usually get 0, 1 or 2 emails from girls a week by being
totally passive?no emails out. So you are going to need 5 or 6
services and you are going to need to post 5 or 6 different profiles on
each one to get any kind of volume (25-50 emails) in to you a week. If
you want more or if your profiles are averaging "0" incoming emails
(which can happen on some services) then you will need to email out
about 250- 500+ emails a week. (I usually average about a 10%
response on emails to girls who are not a match - wrong age, etc.
and 30% response rate from girls who are a match.)
MY PERCENTAGES are actually really irrelevant here. Because one
of the basic sales principles is that it doesn't matter what your "close
ratio" is, it only matters that you know what it is. In other words if your
close ratio is "1 out of 3" or of it is "1 out of 100" you still have the
same ability to set goals and targets. The guy who is "1 out of 100"
just has to work a little a harder to make the same kind of money as
the guy who closes "1 out of 3." (And don't forget the VOLUME of
your experience will cause you to learn things whether you like it or
not. You may start out "1 out of 100" but that will improve as time
goes by.)
SO THE POINT is that the figures I give you above, are my figures.
The target you are shooting for is about 25-50 calls or 50/100 emails
a week. SO SET UP however many profiles you need or use as many
services as you need in order to hit those figures.
Make sure you VARY your PROFILE content and HEADLINE
content. I'd even use different pictures of yourself, so you are not
obviously the same person. Different Women are attracted to different
things. Six ads, all saying the same thing, won't help. Of course, there
will be consistencies that you won't vary -- like age, height, weight,
etc.
But STRESS different things about your personality in different
profiles. In one you can stress that you like outdoor activities, in
another stress that you like to read. In another stress that you are a
romantic. Etc. Get the idea? Also stress different female
characteristics that you like in different ads.
Most importantly be real and be truthful in everything you say. I don't
go into it a lot here, but ultimately it won't do you any good to attract
women based on lies. You won't get very far down the relationship
road if the attraction is based on lies.
Experiment, keep statistics on which ads get the most responses.
Change the unproductive ads. Try new things. Look at other guys
profiles on the service to get ideas.
If you don't know what to say or to email to these girls who email you
or email you back at first, don't worry about it. (THIS is when one of
those Internet Dating Guru books come in handy. If you have one
use some of their ideas.) My most successful action has been to cut
and paste a very simple response to a profile I like. Something
simple like: "Hi, I like your profile. Email me back if you would like
to talk." Again, I find the less you say the better. I've gotten 1000s of
responses to that simple little email.
Whenever a girl emails me back, no matter what they say or ask, I
simply go for the phone number. There are a lot of girls on these
dating sites who are not serious, and are just their to kill time, amuse
themselves, and flirt. DON'T PLAY THEIR GAME.
If they are seriously looking to meet guys, believe me, they will cough
up the phone number. You just have to be polite in "in context." By
"in context" I mean if a girl asks you a bunch of questions about
yourself, don't respond with a simple "Can we talk on the phone?"
PUT IT IN CONTEXT. I simply reply. "I would love to answer your
questions, but unfortunately I don't have a lot of time on the
computer. How about we talk on the phone. That will make it a lot
easier for me."
So, no matter what they say or ask me, I politely come back at them
(in context) with "Let's talk on the phone." Or "Would you like to talk
on the phone?"
I never give them my number (doesn't work too good -unless they
are Asian - And I mean Asian-Asian - not born in America Asian.)
And if they don't give me their number, they DON'T QUALIFY. I
simply drop the line. I don't re-email them, etc.
About a third to half the girls do give you their numbers and that is
good enough for me, and will give you a good volume of dates each
week. From there I work it just like I did with the voice
personals.
And remember, if my statistics aren't the same as yours, the
technique will still work. Just keep adding profiles and services to you
get a nice flow of 25 -50 phone numbers a week
NOW THIS IS THE CORE yet simple TECHNIQUE that got me 700
dates in one year and maintains a flow of 100 dates or so a year
since then (when I'm not in a relationship)
HOW DO THE TWO TECHNIQUES COMPARE?
Personally, I prefer VOICE PERSONAL ADS and EVEN
NEWSPAPER INTERNET ADS over INTERNET DATING SITES
almost on the order of 5 to 1.
WHY?
1) The girls on the internet dating sites are often just playing around,
flirting, just window shopping, not serious. They waste a lot of my
time. When I have a good Newspaper campaign going. I don't even
bother to send out emails. I just answer the emails that girls send me
on the Internet Dating Sites. Takes less time and it is more
productive.
2) Most (about 95%) of the girls on the internet sites traditionally look
a lot worse in person than their pictures. They always seem to put
their best picture up, and never look as good as their pictures when
you meet them. Believe it or not, the quality of girls that I meet from
voice personal ads (as long as I qualify them first for height and
weight when I talk to them on the phone) on the average look a lot
better than the girls whose pictures I have seen on the internet. - GO
FIGURE THAT ONE!
3) Personal ads, just take less of my time. There is a higher response
rate to my ads than on the internet and the girls who call are more
serious.
4) Personal ads, usually produce leads with NO or little competition.
The girls on the internet sites all have ADS up too. And remember
girls can get 50 emails in a day and hot ones can get as much as
several hundred in a day. The girls who call on the personal ads in
newspapers usually don't have an ad up. They are simply browsing
through the paper, see your ad, and make a spontaneous decision to
call. Maybe they might call 2 or 3 ads, but you won't have competition
from 50 other guys a day like the internet.
5) Finally I guess I like the Newspaper Personal Ads better because
I've developed relationships and gotten laid a lot more from
newspaper generated leads than internet generated leads and the
newspaper generate leads have taken and 1/3 to 1/2 as much time to
generate as the internet leads. So for the time spent, I am about 5
times more likely to get a relationship going or to get laid from
Personal Ads in Newspapers than on the Internet dating Sites.
IN SUMMARY
What I have given you here is an easy to implement, simple to
understand SYSTEM that is guaranteed to get you results.
DATING without VOLUME of leads can be a lot more complicated
than this.
Let me go back to the SALES analogy again.
VOLUME of LEADS is a salesman's most basic friend. If he can get a
volume of leads most anyone can figure out what to do from there
over time. Not everyone has equal closing ability. With a VOLUME of
leads some guys may only close 1 out of 1000. Another may close 1
out of 100. Another may close 9 out of 10.
In the beginning, it doesn't matter what your "close" ratio is. Maybe it
is 1 out of 1000. So use my techniques and generate 2500 phone
numbers in a year and by the end of the year, with this scenario,
you'll have 2.5 girlfriends. You see, VOLUME is workable no matter
how bad you are.
Now for those guys who want to be PROS. Who want to learn how to
be able to close 9 out 10 qualified women that they meet for a sexual
relationship. YES you are going to have to learn a little more than
what I have taught you here.
The techniques I have given you here are going to put you on the
road to success. Some of you, once on the road, will figure everything
out on your own. This is all you will ever need. Others will need
additional help along the way to be ultimately able to close 9 out of 10
women that they meet. (Still others will have the ability to figure it out,
but decide-- "Why bother, when someone else has already figured it
out and is willing to tell me.")
That is why I have the book DATING TO RELATING - it goes into
minute specifics and details and is the ultimate manual for guys who
want to:
1) Take it to the next level and close 9 out of 10 qualified
Women that they meet.
2) Be able to pick up women in bars, in clubs, on the street.
3) Be able to seduce a woman?any woman, that has
absolutely NO INTEREST in you.
4) To be able to make love to your woman like no other man
Has ever done it.
5) To be able to meet and keep a hot women that you are
totally in love with for the rest of your life.
Yes, you can learn how to do all of these things, too.
But that is all for now.
Have fun guys!
Mr. L. Rx
PS; I would love to hear about your success.
Email me at: Success@DatingToRelating.com and let me know.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
MR. L. Rx is the author of many internet articles.
(Search "Mr. L. Rx" in your browser.)
As well as the author of DATING TO RELATING (available at
http://www.datingtorelating.com )
As well as the author of many reports like this one (also available at
http://www.datingtorelating.com )
Mr. L. Rx also post articles and case studies and other valuable
information at his Blog Site http://datingtorelating.wordpress.com/
Appendix A
Resources:
I've been asked to provide you with some resources - best places to set up on line accounts etc.
So here they are - also available at:
http://datingtorelating.com/online_dating_sites___directories_and_reviews
MR. L Rx's PERSONAL FREE DIRECTORY OF DATING AND RELATING SITES
OK guys so I'm going to give away a little bit of my secret for free - that is--HOW I GOT 700 DATES IN ONE YEAR.
Now I Didn't do it by meeting woman at work...or at the grocery store....or the park....I did it BY ADVERTISING using ONLINE and PERSONAL AD Services.
So here are a few of my personal suggestions for DATING SERVICES (more for getting dates) and RELATIONSHIP SERVICES (specializing in more compatible match-ups for creating long lasting RELATIONSHIPS.)
STAY TUNED AND COME BACK TO THIS PAGE ABOUT ONCE A WEEK as I WILL BE UPDATING IT AND ADDING more services as I review my own personal statistics and review some of the NEW services I haven't used yet.
NOW ONE LAST WORD OF FREE ADVICE GET "How I got 700 Dates in one year" to fully understand how to use the sites below. BUT IF YOU DON'T, or WON'T, or CAN'T-- then I suggest you set up a FREE profile on each of the sites below and test them out. -- Everyone is different, so test them all out and see which one is right for you.
DATING SERVICES
1) Well in my book Match.com is simply THE BIGGEST and THE BEST. If you want to meet a massive amount of dates you have to belong to Match.com (and know the data in my eReport - How I Got 700 Dates in One Year) Now I just looked up my data from a typical year when I was using all these services and I saw that I got THREE TIMES as many women's phone numbers from MATCH.COM as the nearest competitor. (And 10 times the phone numbers I got from FRIENDFINDER which is number (2) below). For sheer numbers you can't beat MATCH.COM. Now Match.com is constantly changing and consequently does have its better and worse periods, but definitely give the free trial a whirl. In fact If you get my report and learn how to use these services --you'll be helpless without it--you could do the 700 dates in one year (if you live in a big city or are willing to travel to one--from MATCH.COM alone.
Try Match.com Free for 3 days Last year alone, more than 500,000 singles found meaningful relationships through Match.com's online personals and singles ads. you can make love happen through online dating and that lasting relationships are possible. millions of photos and singles ads available online. Whether you're interested in , , , , , , Match.com can help you find the date or relationship that fits you best. Search free through millions of online personals.
2) Now here is one of my old favorites. Now don't let what I said above tend to scare you away from using Friendfinder. All of these services are different and have their unique pluses and minuses. Women on here tend to be aggressive. Not as many hits as Match.com but the women tend to be more aggressive. SO I used FRIENDFINDER in a LAZY MAN's way. I never emailed anyone, I just sat back and let women email me. So yes I just got 1/10th the phone numbers, but I probably expended 1/20th the effort. Also a lot more international presence than match.com if you like that. Usinb BOTH Friendfinder and MATCH.COM provides you with a good balance of services.
FRIENDFINDERS.COM
Join for free and meet local singles for dating, romance, fun, and more.
Founded in 1996, FriendFinder is one of the largest and most successful online dating networks. From our high volume flagship FriendFinder.com to SeniorFriendFinder. PLUS we just added 6 new sites to our program. Now you can join Amigos, AsiaFriendFinder, JewishFriendFinder, GermanFriendFinder, GayFriendFinder and BigChurch.
FriendFinder's millions of members ensures that the singles who join will find many attractive, eligible dates in their own home town. And they'll be well on their way to starting a new, exciting and fulfilling relationship.
3) Here is a relatively new but very interesting Dating Site. They, like Friendfinder, have a lot of niche specialty sites too. Try a free profile.
Metrodate.com
Metrodate.com is the best way to meet singles in your city or around the world! Search our member profiles with personal messages, photos, videos, and voice messages from singles that are anxious to meet you! Sign up for a free membership to create your own profile, visit the chat rooms, message boards, dating tips and more! Premium membership is also available! Singles travel, singles events, nightlife and restaurant guides, and much more!
4) Here is a relatively new service with lots of members (23 million). Set up a free profile and try it out.
Find love and romance in your city on DateNation.
FEATURES
Traffic comes to play.and stays - for the exceptional DateNation feature set:
- Sophisticated chat technology
- Member Webcam Broadcasts
- Matchmaking features including Cupid Service
- Blogs
- Relationship Magazine - with content for and by members
- Friend Network
- Adult Location Directory
5) Another service that has been around a long time. It has some unique features and good response rates. Also has telephone based products, which I particularly liked and found to be more fun than the online stuff.
Join Lavalife NOW!
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We recognize that all human beings have the need to interact. Our history is filled with elaborate courting rituals and traditions. While our society may have changed, our need to be social and to connect with each other hasn't. That's why Lavalife was created. We're a global brand and the world's largest independent provider of technology based meeting services designed to create possibilities for singles. We offer telephone-based products in over forty cities throughout North America and Australia, and www.lavalife.com on the world wide web.
Lavalife gives singles the chance to click effectively with many people in a safe and entertaining environment. We recognize the complexity of meeting others in our fast paced modern society and dedicate ourselves to providing solutions. Our customers have the control to choose when and how they want to click - for any kind of connection, whether it is friendship, dating or relationships.
6) NOW HERE IS A NEW ONE I JUST DISCOVERED. It has some unique features and they have a really cool FREE TRIAL because the first time you log on, it is fully featured and requires no credit card. SO you really get to try it out for yourself and see if you like it.
ELITEMATE.COM
Consumers can sign up for a free online profile with Elitemate.com. The first log-in is fully privileged for the entire site. Elitemate offers many unique features you won't find on other dating sites such as accelerated instant messenger, video profiles, greeting cards, singles events and parties, anonymous telephone communication and much more!
7) Here is another relatively new service that has a great FREE TRIAL OFFER - NO CREDIT CARD REQUIRED. Give it a try.
Singlesnet.com
One of the hottest dating sites on the internet, Singlesnet.com now boasts a great Free Trial offer with NO credit card required. It takes only 30 seconds to create an account, and users can immediately receive and reply to messages from other Singlesnet members!
8) Mate 1 is another relatively new service that has a lot of agressive women on it. WOmen are free - maybe that's why. But Give it a try. They usually have a free trail period for men.
Mate 1 Online Dating - Mate1 is one of the hottest dating sites on the internet - and totally FREE for women! Mate seekers can meet hot singles in their area instantly.
RELATIONSHIP SERVICES
1) Now this is an interesting service. You can sign up and contact people for free. There is a 7 day free trial. Also have a very interesting profile match test that you should take.
About Perfectmatch.com
Start meeting the right people at Perfectmatch.com, guaranteed.
Perfectmatch.com® (Perfectmatch), a leading online dating and relationship service, is the best approach for adults seeking successful, lasting relationships. It is the only online dating and relationship service to offer the Duet® Total Compatibility System (Duet®), co-developed by internationally renowned relationship expert, Dr. Pepper Schwartz (Dr. Schwartz). Based on over 30 years of research, Duet® analyzes the ?whole person', taking into account each member's Personality, Values and Ideals, Life and Lovestyle? and Preferences to identify and find the person right for them. This unique and proprietary system enables Perfectmatch to provide both the best online capabilities and member experience to those seeking a real love, a relationship or marriage.
Enjoyed by millions of Perfectmatch members, Duet® has proven to be more effective than any matchmaking service on the Web. By identifying key elements, Perfectmatch determines unique compatibility types and provides highly compatible matches to its members. Unlike the eHarmony® experience, Perfectmatch provides both highly compatible matches and powerful, easy to use search tools.
Perfectmatch was founded and is managed by the team who pioneered online dating from its infancy. The foremost authorities in online dating, the Perfectmatch team previously built and managed Kiss.com/uDate.com to over seven million members, leading up to the sale to InterActiveCorp (Match.com) in 2002.
Perfectmatch has forged partnerships with numerous world-class brands, including iVillage, MSNBC, Oxygen Networks, Warner Bros. and NBC Universal Studios. The newest book written by Dr. Schwartz, "Finding Your Perfect Match" (Penguin), appears in bookstores nationwide.
2) This is a relatively new service but it large and has pretty good action.
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3) This is one of the first sites in on the RELATIONSHIP side of things. Another intersting site specializing in compatibility mathcing. Take the free personality test
eharmony.com
The first relationship service on the Web to use a scientific approach to match highly compatible singles. Millions of people of all ages, ethnicities, and religious backgrounds have used eHarmony's patented Compatibility Matching System? to find the love of their lives.
Building on its enormous success matching compatible singles, eHarmony launched a revolutionary new service in 2006 to help couples achieve stronger, healthier and happier marriages. eHarmony Marriage is a personalized, interactive, online "marriage wellness" program designed to help marriages flourish by building a deepened sense of understanding, appreciation and connectedness. eHarmony Marriage gives every couple the opportunity to look at their marriage objectively and increase the joy and intimacy in a private, practical and positive program.
4) Well what can I say. They've been around for 30 years. Not really an on-line experience, but you can fill out your profile online for free. Give it a tary if you are adventurous.
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With so many dating services out there, what makes Great Expectations different from the others?
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