MR. L Rx's PERSONAL FREE DIRECTORY OF DATING AND RELATING SITES
OK guys so I'm going to give away a little bit of my secret for free - that is--HOW I GOT 700 DATES IN ONE YEAR.
Now I didn't do it by meeting women at work...or at the grocery store....or the park....I did it BY ADVERTISING using ONLINE and PERSONAL AD Services.
So here are a few of my personal suggestions for DATING SERVICES (more for getting dates) and RELATIONSHIP SERVICES (specializing in more compatible match-ups for creating long lasting RELATIONSHIPS.)
STAY TUNED AND COME BACK TO THIS PAGE ABOUT ONCE A WEEK as I WILL BE UPDATING IT AND ADDING more services as I review my own personal statistics and review some of the NEW services I haven't used yet.
NOW ONE LAST WORD OF FREE ADVICE GET "How I got 700 Dates in one year" to fully understand how to use the sites below. BUT IF YOU DON'T, or WON'T, or CAN'T-- then I suggest you set up a FREE profile on each of the sites below and test them out. -- Everyone is different, so test them all out and see which one is right for you.
FEATURED - This is a NEW SECTION - These are sites that YOU GUYS have been giving me the best feedback on. Here are YOUR TOP 3 SITES:
1) I guess you guys not only like the fully functional FREE TRIAL OFFER but you like the site after trying it out too, because your feedback made this your number one favorite site- FREE TRIAL OFFER - NO CREDIT CARD REQUIRED. Give it a try and click on the name.
Singlesnet.com
One of the hottest dating sites on the internet, Singlesnet.com now boasts a great Free Trial offer with NO credit card required. It takes only 30 seconds to create an account, and users can immediately receive and reply to messages from other Singlesnet members!
2) You guys seem to like all the features and the INTERNATIONAL flavor of this site, because this was your number two selection- FREE TRIAL OFFER - Give it a try, click on the name.
Friend Search
Friend Search generates 7000 new DATING profiles daily! 1 minute to sign up! Free to join! Free to search! Free to contact! Meet singles in your area tonight. Browse millions of photo personals to make friends, go dating, find love or long term relationships. 1000s of matches made thru our Cupid's matchmaking service. Rated the World's #1 FREE Online Dating site.
3) I guess you guys liked this site too, because this was your number three selection- FREE TRIAL OFFER - Give it a try, click on the name.
Metrodate.com
Metrodate.com is the best way to meet singles in your city or around the world! Search our member profiles with personal messages, photos, videos, and voice messages from singles that are anxious to meet you! Sign up for a free membership to create your own profile, visit the chat rooms, message boards, dating tips and more! Premium membership is also available! Singles travel, singles events, nightlife and restaurant guides, and much more!
DATING SERVICES -
OK so we are back to MY selections of the best sites to try.
1) Well in my book Match.com is simply THE BIGGEST and THE BEST. If you want to meet a massive amount of dates you have to belong to Match.com (and know the data in my eReport - How I Got 700 Dates in One Year) Now I just looked up my data from a typical year when I was using all these services and I saw that I got THREE TIMES as many women's phone numbers from MATCH.COM as the nearest competitor. (And 10 times the phone numbers I got from FRIENDFINDER which is number (2) below). For sheer numbers you can't beat MATCH.COM. Now Match.com is constantly changing and consequently does have its better and worse periods, but definitely give the free trial a whirl. In fact If you get my report and learn how to use these services --you'll be helpless without it--you could do the 700 dates in one year (if you live in a big city or are willing to travel to one--from MATCH.COM alone.
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2) Now here is one of my old favorites. Now don't let what I said above tend to scare you away from using Friendfinder. All of these services are different and have their unique pluses and minuses. Women on here tend to be aggressive. Not as many hits as Match.com but the women tend to be more aggressive. SO I used FRIENDFINDER in a LAZY MAN's way. I never emailed anyone, I just sat back and let women email me. So yes I just got 1/10th the phone numbers, but I probably expended 1/20th the effort. Also a lot more international presence than match.com if you like that. Usinb BOTH Friendfinder and MATCH.COM provides you with a good balance of services.
FRIENDFINDERS.COM 
Join for free and meet local singles for dating, romance, fun, and more. 
Founded in 1996, FriendFinder is one of the largest and most successful online dating networks. From our high volume flagship FriendFinder.com to SeniorFriendFinder. PLUS we just added 6 new sites to our program. Now you can join Amigos, AsiaFriendFinder, JewishFriendFinder, GermanFriendFinder, GayFriendFinder and BigChurch.
FriendFinder's millions of members ensures that the singles who join will find many attractive, eligible dates in their own home town. And they'll be well on their way to starting a new, exciting and fulfilling relationship.
3) Here is a relatively new but very interesting Dating Site. They, like Friendfinder, have a lot of niche specialty sites too. Try a free profile.
Metrodate.com
Metrodate.com is the best way to meet singles in your city or around the world! Search our member profiles with personal messages,
photos,
videos, and
voice messages from singles that are anxious to meet you! Sign up for a free membership to create your own profile, visit the chat rooms, message boards,
dating tips and more! Premium membership is also available!
Singles travel,
singles events,
nightlife and
restaurant guides, and much more!
4) Here is a relatively new service with lots of members (23 million). Set up a free profile and try it out.
FEATURES
Traffic comes to play.and stays - for the exceptional DateNation feature set:
- Sophisticated chat technology
- Member Webcam Broadcasts
- Matchmaking features including Cupid Service
- Blogs
- Relationship Magazine - with content for and by members
- Friend Network
- Adult Location Directory
5) Another service that has been around a long time. It has some unique features and good response rates. Also has telephone based products, which I particularly liked and found to be more fun than the online stuff.
Join Lavalife NOW!
Meet 1000s of sexy singles at Lavalife, one of the world's top online dating destinations! Signing up is fast and FREE, and within
minutes you can start sending and receiving unlimited free smiles. Additionally, it's always free to reply when someone contacts
you. Post your profile in 3 unique communities, from dating to intimate, and start connecting with local singles in minutes.
Communicate via email, IM, video messaging, private backstage passes, webcam and more. Sign up for FREE now!
We recognize that all human beings have the need to interact. Our history is filled with elaborate courting rituals and traditions. While our society may have changed, our need to be social and to connect with each other hasn't. That's why Lavalife was created. We're a global brand and the world's largest independent provider of technology based meeting services designed to create possibilities for singles. We offer telephone-based products in over forty cities throughout North America and Australia, and www.lavalife.com on the world wide web.
Lavalife gives singles the chance to click effectively with many people in a safe and entertaining environment. We recognize the complexity of meeting others in our fast paced modern society and dedicate ourselves to providing solutions. Our customers have the control to choose when and how they want to click - for any kind of connection, whether it is friendship, dating or relationships.
6) NOW HERE IS A NEW ONE I JUST DISCOVERED. It has some unique features and they have a really cool FREE TRIAL because the first time you log on, it is fully featured and requires no credit card. SO you really get to try it out for yourself and see if you like it.
ELITEMATE.COM
Consumers can sign up for a free online profile with Elitemate.com. The first log-in is fully privileged for the entire site. Elitemate offers many unique features you won't find on other dating sites such as accelerated instant messenger, video profiles, greeting cards, singles events and parties, anonymous telephone communication and much more!
7) Here is another relatively new service that has a great FREE TRIAL OFFER - NO CREDIT CARD REQUIRED. Give it a try.
Singlesnet.com
One of the hottest dating sites on the internet, Singlesnet.com now boasts a great Free Trial offer with NO credit card required. It takes only 30 seconds to create an account, and users can immediately receive and reply to messages from other Singlesnet members!
8) Mate 1 is another relatively new service that has a lot of agressive women on it. WOmen are free - maybe that's why. But Give it a try. They usually have a free trail period for men.
Mate 1 Online Dating - Mate1 is one of the hottest dating sites on the internet - and totally FREE for women! Mate seekers can meet hot singles in their area instantly.
9) FRIEND SEARCH is another relatively new service with a lot of COOL FEATURES and a HUGE INTERNATIONAL COMMUNITY. If you want to date INTERNATIONALLY give this one a try.
Friend Search
Friend Search generates 7000 new DATING profiles daily! 1 minute to sign up! Free to join! Free to search! Free to contact! Meet singles in your area tonight. Browse millions of photo personals to make friends, go dating, find love or long term relationships. 1000s of matches made thru our Cupid's matchmaking service. Rated the World's #1 FREE Online Dating site.
10) DATING TO RELATING dot NET! This is a service I put together as a result of your survey answers. BASIC services are TOTALLY FREE. NO FEES ever, and you DON'T EVEN NEED A CREDIT CARD to sign up. So use this basic free service, then if you want to pay a small fee you can upgrade to some really cool services, like AUDIO and VIDEO chat, PC to PC phone calls. There are millions of members in the database and we have members all over the world. If you want to date locally or INTERNATIONALLY give this one a try.
DatingToRelating.net
DatingToRelating.net has totallly free services! 1 minute to sign up! Free to join! Free to search! Free to contact! Free to respond. Meet singles in your area or internationally tonight. Browse millions of photo personals. You are going to really like this one! We even have an affilate program built in so you can make money referring your friends.
11) NOW THIS IS NEW. Took me a little while to research it but I came up with some 100% FREE SITES -not just free trials, but NO FEES EVER! NOW this seems to be what a lot of you guys wanted. They don't ALL work quite as well as some of the paid sites, but what they heck, they are FREE, and some of them even work BETTER. Go to my NEW PAGE below and get the INFO:
100% FREE ONLINE DATING SITES DIRECTORY- no fees ever
RELATIONSHIP SERVICES
These are MY Selections for Relationship Type sites
1) Now this is an interesting service. You can sign up and contact people for free. There is a 7 day free trial. Also have a very interesting profile match test that you should take.
About Perfectmatch.com
Start meeting the right people at Perfectmatch.com, guaranteed. 
Perfectmatch.com® (Perfectmatch), a leading online dating and relationship service, is the best approach for adults seeking successful, lasting relationships. It is the only online dating and relationship service to offer the Duet® Total Compatibility System (Duet®), co-developed by internationally renowned relationship expert, Dr. Pepper Schwartz (Dr. Schwartz). Based on over 30 years of research, Duet® analyzes the ?whole person', taking into account each member's Personality, Values and Ideals, Life and Lovestyle? and Preferences to identify and find the person right for them. This unique and proprietary system enables Perfectmatch to provide both the best online capabilities and member experience to those seeking a real love, a relationship or marriage.
Enjoyed by millions of Perfectmatch members, Duet® has proven to be more effective than any matchmaking service on the Web. By identifying key elements, Perfectmatch determines unique compatibility types and provides highly compatible matches to its members. Unlike the eHarmony® experience, Perfectmatch provides both highly compatible matches and powerful, easy to use search tools.
Perfectmatch was founded and is managed by the team who pioneered online dating from its infancy. The foremost authorities in online dating, the Perfectmatch team previously built and managed Kiss.com/uDate.com to over seven million members, leading up to the sale to InterActiveCorp (Match.com) in 2002.
Perfectmatch has forged partnerships with numerous world-class brands, including iVillage, MSNBC, Oxygen Networks, Warner Bros. and NBC Universal Studios. The newest book written by Dr. Schwartz, "Finding Your Perfect Match" (Penguin), appears in bookstores nationwide.
2) This is a relatively new service but it large and has pretty good action.
TRUE.COM.....Try True.com's 7-day FREE trial 
A dating site beyond personal ads ...
- Find your most compatible matches - for dating, romance, love and more
- Coaching and matchmaking services give you expert profile and personal ad advice
- Use your webcam and get up-close and personal with live videochat
- Meet singles at the only single dating service that screens for marrieds and felons
- Browse members' personal ads, personal profiles and personal photos
- For instant gratification, use our one-click search for a single man or single woman, or get more tailored results with an advanced single search
- Find the freshest personal profiles on TRUE any time you want
- Get a head start and find single men and women who are looking for a single just like you - based on how you describe yourself in your personal profile
3) This is one of the first sites in on the RELATIONSHIP side of things. Another intersting site specializing in compatibility mathcing. Take the free personality test
eharmony.com 
The first relationship service on the Web to use a scientific approach to match highly compatible singles. Millions of people of all ages, ethnicities, and religious backgrounds have used eHarmony's patented Compatibility Matching System? to find the love of their lives.
Building on its enormous success matching compatible singles, eHarmony launched a revolutionary new service in 2006 to help couples achieve stronger, healthier and happier marriages. eHarmony Marriage is a personalized, interactive, online "marriage wellness" program designed to help marriages flourish by building a deepened sense of understanding, appreciation and connectedness. eHarmony Marriage gives every couple the opportunity to look at their marriage objectively and increase the joy and intimacy in a private, practical and positive program.
4) Well what can I say. They've been around for 30 years. Not really an on-line experience, but you can fill out your profile online for free. Give it a tary if you are adventurous.
GREAT EXPECTATIONS
With so many dating services out there, what makes Great Expectations different from the others?
With nearly 30 years of experience in helping people find true love, we have a distinct advantage over newcomers to the industry. And in order to ensure a safer dating experience, we:
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Screen and validate vital information
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Meet every member face to face
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Maintain current photographs and videos that accurately represent your potential dates
Once you have decided it's time to make a change in your social situation, all you need to do is contact us. As a member, you will have access to a team of relationship professionals and thousands of member profiles. Also, you will receive invitations to Great Expectations parties and events exclusive to members. The people you will meet are single and live in your area. Our state-of-the-art matching system, combined with our compassionate team members will help put you in your desired relationship quickly. The quality of service and attention to detail we provide is unparalleled in the dating industry.
